Showing posts with label what is love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label what is love. Show all posts

Wednesday, 6 June 2012

Day 40 - Context and Definitions of Love



Love is destructive because it is deliberately taken out of context so people can use and abuse life in the name of Love.

Contexts of Love

1. Epithumia
- a strong desire of many sorts.
- Many times it is associated with lust or to covet
- desire to have or to own.
- controlling


This form of love is self-sabotage because;
- It exists as selfishness within fear of loss
- It is based in jealousy - as the fear of seeing oneself as 'less than'
- has the expression of "I dont care about what others want, I want this for myself, even at the expense of others"


2. Eros
- associated with romance,
- head-over-heals feeling
- feeling you've found your Soul mate
- Your world and mind circles about your loved one and they are always on your mind.


This form of love is self-sabotage because;
- Belief based on programmed idea of "love"
- It is the fear of being alone which energizes the feeling of Eros


3. Agape
- expect nothing in return
- self sacrifice but is not unconditional
- by choice
- You can elect to love your spouse this way because it is what is best for your family and marriage.

This form of love is self-sabotage because;
- Self suppression, often based on fear of survival, fear of loneliness, or fear of facing yourself
- Rather than standing Equal to our world and reality,


4. Phileo:
- This love cherishes and has tender affection for the beloved but it expects a response.
- a love of relationship, comradeship, sharing, communication and friendship.
- a close companionship that is all trusting

- Relationship love - Based in Self-interest within the starting point of selfishness because it is not based in the starting point of standing for life as what is best for all.
- Often abused through creating personalities and imposing them on children.


5. Storge:
- Storge love is often described as a comfortable old shoe relationship comprised of natural affection and a sense of belonging to each other.
-  represents a safe haven for couples as it is a place of acceptance, mutual respect and shelter.

 This form of love is self-sabotage because;
- Fear of not belonging, not being accepted
- often comes from childhood experiences where we feared being left out
- Desire for safety - as the desire for validation and justification as to why we are not being honest with ourselves. 
- Self-compromise


All of these forms of love exist within fear and limitation by not understanding ourselves, believing ourselves to be separate from our world and reality.   Any love that is based on fear is self-deception and therefore not standing equal to life.


The only love that is real in fact, is that which is absolutely unconditional, and not limited to personal ideas or beliefs.  Living or having an agreement within the starting point of supporting all life Equally, as the principle of what is best for all is the only real, self-honest starting point for having an agreement or relationship.  Love has not helped our world in any way, in fact, our world is is a virtual hell for many, because of dishonesty and the belief in Love.


If we stop love and decided to live as Equals and support life, we could have heaven on Earth.


Help us by supporting and Equal Money system.


See my video on Love here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAVFvuZmkEE&feature=youtu.be

Thursday, 24 May 2012

7yr Journey to Life - Day 27 - Love





I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I could experience love for myself while the rest of the world suffers.  And in so, I justified my personal and selfish desire for love through the excuse -  'It's to big for me to understand' - 'there's nothing I can do about it' and 'it's too scary for me to consider'.  Never allowing myself to realize and understand that all the fictitious bandage excuses I used were only a cover up, and never able to stop my addiction to the desire to experience love - in spite of the big picture - I always knew my love wasn't real, the evidence was all around me, every moment of my existence, I was just too afraid to face who I am for real, and in so, I denied who I am, and traded my eternal self for a morphine high, subject to the ultimate low of death, as complete self-denial.

 I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that there is a spiritual 'heart of love' out there somewhere, in the great beyond, that has accounted for - numbered, and made a record of, all my feelings of love that I had in my life, so that I in my selfish mind, could use these thoughts of love to comfort myself in thinking that I lived a good life - because I felt feelings of love.  Yet I never allowed myself to realize that these feelings of love can only exist within a physical body - therefore when my body dies, all my love DIES with it - completely proving that my love was never real, but only fleeting feelings of selfishness to cover my guilt and shame of who I had accepted and allowed myself to become - as a self-deceiver that did not give my whole life to expose spite, and honor all life Equally.  

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe the lie that love is forever, when in fact love is subject to time and death, and cannot exist without me or the earth - as a physical expression of me, as life.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that my love is sweet and caring, when in fact, my love has only the appearance of sweetness, but it is a deadly poisoned apple, seducing and killing all who eat it through a slow and painful death by corruption.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to use my love as bait to lure others into my traps of guilt, shame and desire for revenge I experienced within myself, so that I could have company in my judgement against life, sighting legalities and false justifications, in my self-denial, misery and deceitfulness.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to deceive myself through thinking that I wanted love when what I really wanted was sex, as an energy high to pacify my irresponsibility to life.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to become entranced and enchanted with thoughts of love and delight, seeking nothing but fulfillment of selfish desire, in full awareness of how I was injecting hatred and enmity into all of existence as myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to celebrate the lie of love, and in so manifest the extreme polarity as murder, rape and killing in my world because I laughingly accepted my own lie, thinking I could somehow escape myself, and would not have to face the consequences of what I had allowed myself to become.     

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think that I am brave because I accepted the lie of love, I am brave because I can deny myself,  I am brave because I see fear in the reactions of others, I am brave because I can cheat death,  'I must be a supreme God' because I can abuse love - when the reality is no one is able to cheat death, as the manifested consequence of what we have allowed through the belief in love - which is spite - as fear of self.

I commit myself to expose the lie of love and its deception which is used by Hollywood, media, and corporations to sell more products to fuel consumerism for profit resulting in the corruption of life and the destruction of our planet.

I commit myself to live myself here as breath in every moment facing myself for who I am as a physical being that does not require love from an outside source.  I embrace, support and care for myself as I embrace, support and care for all life as changing myself and our world into a place where life is honored in Equality

I commit myself to stand for and support the only solution that will bring us out of the massive problems and consequences we face in our world.  Equal Money for All.

I commit myself to bring awareness of Equality to those who do not fully understand the deception propagated by corporations, Hollywood, media and politicians in our world through blogging and sharing and becoming a living example of what is best for all

I commit myself to give all of myself to Life as Equality as breath as aligning myself with the physical in all ways so that I may become the living expression of life, Equal and One, until it is done.





Friday, 18 May 2012

Day 22 - Emotions Energy and My Physical Body


 
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to be directed and controlled by personal 
emotions and feelings, in that I have allowed myself  
to create emotions and feelings based on fear-of-loss 
and fear-of-death, not realizing within myself that I 
am responsible for stopping those feelings and 
emotions from raping and controlling me, so that I 
can stand for life as what is best for all. 
 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to believe that I was separate from my reality 
and therefore justify my emotional reactions as 
'defending myself' from my self-created fears through 
separation whereas I viewed my mind as the totality 
of me in not wanting to equally take responsibility for 
All of the me's that I am. 
 
 
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to fuel my emotional reactions with thought 
energy and picture projections in my mind as 
justifications for those fears, when all along, those 
pictures were not the actuality of the situation, but a 
false representation presented so that I could remain 
enslaved to my fears.   And the energy is what I have
allowed myself to become addicted to as addiction to 
fear, through me fearing myself and attempting to 
comfort and escape myself.  It is obvious that I cannot
escape myself.
 
 


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to extensively judge and condemn myself in 
guilt, shame, and regret in an attempt to punish 
myself for how consequences manifested in my life, 
rather than slow myself down within breath, and 
realize and understand how I was accepting and 
allowing undesirable consequences in my life 
experience and how I could realize the patterns I was 
creating and stop them from re-occurring. Within that,
I commit myself to change myself to stand in self-
responsibility to myself AND all. 
 
 
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to blame others for my own emotional and 
feeling reactions, and the painful consequences that I 
experienced within my physical body.  In that I realize
that I neglected the experience of myself by neglecting
the fact that my physical body was specifically showing
me that I was not being honest with myself as I was 
trying to be a hero and appear as 'a good guy' to 
others by acting as an 'energy garbage collector' and 
thus attempting to purify everything through my mind,
rather than actually stand as an Equal and share 
responsibility with everyone through allowing 
everyone work out their own dishonesty.
 
 
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to place my trust in others and the advice of 
others before trusting myself as seeing myself as the 
point of responsibility in understanding myself and my
reality wherein I am capable of seeing - what is best 
for all is best for me - rather than trying to collect 
knowledge and information and so use it to gain power
over others as a false god of consciousness.
 
 
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 
myself to think and believe the idea that my physical 
body is the personal property of my mind in which I 
have to defend through fear of losing my personal 
property.  I realize that while we are within this 
current system, place and time, it is common sense to
defend my body if physically threatened. My physical 
body is my primary point of responsibility as the 
vehicle where I learn to stand and express myself as a 
responsible steward-in-training until I am perfectly 
standing Equal to my physical body in standing as the
living expression of what is best for all life in all ways.
 
 
 


In that I realize that much abusiveness and delusion 
exists within our world, therefore I commit myself to 
take responsibility for my body, in not accepting 
and allowing my physical body to be subjected to 
abuse, harm or false sentiments of those who are 
ignorant and/or unaware of the consequences of 
inequality and of being subject/slave to a mind which 
only seeks its own self-interest at the expense of Life 
as a whole.


I will not trade Life for a bowl of soup. 


Image of an inside view of a heart
from http://science.nationalgeographic.com/science/photos/heart/#/inside-heart_1008_600x450.jpg